Monday, 28 March 2016

Why You Need Vitamin N

Ever heard of Vitamin N? Me neither. I thought I knew all the vitamins there were to know. So I googled this strange Vitamin N. Yes, it exists...in a sense. It isn’t a nutrient but a habitat. Vitamin N stands for Nature, our natural human environment.

Now why was an alternative term for nature coined as a vitamin? Whether we acknowledge this fact or not, our psyches are attuned to nature. Humans and nature have an intrinsic connection. Nature is nurture for our mental health and therefore physical health as well. In these terms, nature may be considered a vitamin, one we need to have a regular substantial dose of to maintain our overall well-being.

People are hardwired to live in natural surroundings yet we have gradually built lifestyles over the last century that have disengaged us further away from nature’s healing and calming forces. Our lifestyles have even destroyed ecosystems around us. Most of us today are so disconnected from our natural environment that we sometimes fear it, find it inconvenient, or do not even realize how much we need it.

When we look at gorgeous waterfalls and breathtaking canyons, it moves us emotionally. When we find a quiet spot surrounded by foliage, our mind clears and we get to think more peaceful and positive thoughts. We cannot deny that our very genes long to commune with the natural world, not the artificial one we have created, no matter how convenient. We still need nature,viitamin N, for our soul.

Why We Need Vitamin N

We need to imbibe as much vitamin N as much as we can for these reasons:

Nature Heals

According to a Pennsylvanian research, patients in hospital rooms with views of natural landscapes enjoyed shorter duration of hospital care, required less pain medication, and had less complaints than those patients whose windows opened to views of brick walls. The lucky patients who could see trees from their windows often seemed to recover four times faster.

Studies have shown that seeing nature de-stresses people and improves their overall sense of well-being. Physiological data suggests that natural scenery elicits a response from a part of the parasympathetic system that restores physical energy. Research by Moore in 1981 revealed that inmates in cells with window views of nature exhibited much less stress symptoms than those who did not. These prisoners had lesser incidences of digestive problems, headaches, and other illnesses.

Nature Promotes Psychological Well-Being

Workers who are privileged to have windows opening to natural landscapes often feel less stressed at their jobs and tend to have better overall job satisfaction over those whose sceneries present urban vistas.

Joggers seem to burn more calories and enjoy their runs more than those who sweat it out indoors on a treadmill. Nature just seems to lighten one’s mental load. A good dose of Vitamin N can do wonders for people experiencing stress, anxiety, and depression. As mental health often translates to physical health, we may deduce that communing with nature promotes physical health as well.

Nature Improves Cognitive Functions

Interacting with nature can improve memory and focus by as much as 20%. According to a psychology research by the University of Michigan, people who were asked to walk down a scenic route via the Matthaei Botanical Gardens and Nichols Arboretum exhibited a 20% boost in short-term memory. When asked to walk through city streets however no such cognitive improvements were apparent.

Even pictures of nature provide positive mental stimulation. The same research included testing participants with nature and city scene photos inside a room. The results were the same. Participants who viewed photos of natural landscapes experienced the same 20% boost in memory and attention span. When shown pictures of urban landscapes, these same participants showed no such cognitive improvements.

Nature Revitalizes

A paper by Richard Ryan, professor of psychology, psychiatry, and education at the University of Rochester, states that 20 minutes a day outdoors can be all it takes to energize one for the day. Ryan says, “Research has shown that people with a greater sense of vitality don't just have more energy for things they want to do, they are also more resilient to physical illnesses. One of the pathways to health may be to spend more time in natural settings.”

Nature Builds Goodwill and Human Bonding

Nature simply makes one feel good so that the propensity to share this great feeling comes out in wanting to relate with others as well. The same author of the paper cited above also authored another paper that revealed the link between nature and an individual’s propensity to care. People who were exposed much more to natural environments tended to be be more social, value community and personal relationships, and even be generous with money.

Ryan’s co-author, Netta Weinstein, believes that incorporating nature into urban environments may help build community bonds between residents. In contrast, she says, disconnecting ourselves from nature may also lead to us disconnecting from each other. This may explain why most city dwellers show more social estrangement, reservation, and indifference than their rural counterparts.

Indeed, we owe it ourselves to get our healthy dose of Vitamin N everyday. Instead of driving, walk or cycle down the blocks. Take in the fresh air, the green grass, and the sounds of birds. Nature is free, abundant, and will do us a barrel of good. All we need is the presence of mind to appreciate it.

Sunday, 13 March 2016

Regrets Can Be a Good Thing


Here’s a paradigm challenge outside the old box: regrets can be a good thing. Really, now? This goes against the grain of what we have chosen to believe in….”Live with no regrets;” “Life’s too short for regrets;” “Regrets and recriminations only hurt your soul;” and a lot more quotes that deplore feeling sorry for missed opportunities or past mistakes.
Like all things in this world, perhaps anything can be deemed to be either good or bad. It’s just a matter of perspective. Love can make one soar so high but it can also bring one crashing to the ground. Money can help save lives and it can also destroy them. So when regrets come your way, squeeze these lemons and make fantastic lemonade, just as the flippant saying goes. There’s wisdom in it.
Breathe some positivity into the negativity of “I should have...” by canning the wallowing in, the dwelling on, and the mea culpas from regret. True, embarrassment and guilt seem to cling to you like gum on a sole but perhaps it is time to view your regrettable errors from a different angle. And just like time, stress, and your household budget, why not learn to manage regrets?

Regrets as Life Lessons

As life lessons, regrets are valuable resources. Write down your regrets and beside each, enumerate what you can learn from them and what you can do differently. Keep these in a notebook, diary, or even as your online notes, where you can refer to them from time to time. History may repeat itself; but now, you are armed with experience and memory to do things differently next time.

Regrets as Indicators of Your Instincts

If you can feel regret, then you instinctively know you have done something inappropriate. This means your instincts are honed right. Without that sorry feeling, you may not be able to properly realize how much your actions have contributed poorly or have any empathy for the consequences. People who rarely experience regret may also lack the insight on how their actions have led to the damage or deterioration of their situation. In other words, regretful feelings indicate that your social and moral compasses are spot on.
If however you feel regret constantly and over the littlest of things, it is time for a reassessment of your personal rules and standards. Too strict and inflexible, perhaps? Then, time to relax a bit and bend your personal rules to a more pragmatic level.

Regrets as Signals for Change

Regrets are painful but they actually are good kicks-in-the butt that admonish for changes in your attitudes, thinking patterns, and manners of decision-making. As life lessons, regrets should be used to guide you where you did wrong and trigger you to improve your reactions, given similar situations. Our mistakes should also help us realize the consequences of our decisions, whether these be beneficial or damaging.

Regrets as Character Builders

Many times you cannot undo what has been done but you can pick yourself up and move forward, instead of choosing to wallow in your sin. Regrets can strengthen your abilities to focus on what you can control and work around what you can’t.
Training yourself to focus on the controllable rather than dwell miserably on what is past and possibly irreparable makes you stronger with a skill that allows you to make the most of a situation instead of falling headlong into a cycle of shame and self-recrimination. Sure, you grieve but life must go on, just better this time.
Regrets are a good thing. In this journey called life, our errors give us the opportunities to learn and grow. After all, we are in an adventure. The choice is ours to view our existence through the negativity of myopia or through a well-balanced perspective.
Change is not the only constant thing there is in life. Regrets at some point will be its inevitable companion so they are bound to crop up whether you do or don’t do. Nobody is perfect; no one, impervious to mistakes. Just remember for every regret, there is always a silver lining somewhere.
References:
  • http://inspirationfeed.com/articles/self-development/regrets-will-eat-your-soul-learn-how-to-let-go/
  • http://tinybuddha.com/blog/dealing-with-regret-8-ways-to-benefit-and-move-forward/
  • http://alwayswellwithin.com/2013/10/23/benefits-of-regret/